I
don’t know how to put this but I don’t get the concept of being fake. I know
what it means and how negative it is. But I think everyone is fake. I mean
people say that to someone who are basically faking (hahaha no **it Sherlock).
But think about it, no one is not fake! We all have been fake. For example what
do you say to a cute little girl when she asked about her ugly drawing that
looks like **it? You must said something like “ Aww how cute” (unless you don’t
have a heart). Or another example like talking to your annoying cousin, wearing
a hideous dress your aunt bought for you to her birthday party, be humble when
you get a perfect score even though you wanted to show it to your nemesis and
dance, smile at your class’s biatch, etc etc (this example are not my personal
experiences because I fake on worst conditions hahaha).
What
I don’t get is that why people assume that it is a really bad thing and only
certain people (like cliques or popular girls) does it? I also think that it is
not a bad thing really, sometimes you gotta fake it. I mean you can’t always be
all out. There is good and bad for a reason. I see “being fake” as being more
polite and shows how well behaved we are. The problem is that are you going to
keep the other side or the true side of that to your self or spreading it to
other people.
In
my opinion, being fake is okay but what is not okay is to talk behind the
person’s back and not keeping it to your self. For example, a classmate ask you
about her dress that she obviously like because she wears it to the dance, with
that situation you at least say like “Oh it fits well on you” (or you can be
mean to) which is more polite that saying that it is ugly and you hate the
color the cheap fabric. The right way is to keep your opinion to your self and
the wrong way is like saying this to your friend “Look at her dress, the color
is so dull and the fabric is totally cheap! I can’t believe she wear that
tonight” (hahaha basically a line that you see in movies by some random popular
girl).
So
in conclusion, I think being fake is being more polite to someone despite your
honest feeling, opinion, etc. And it is not that bad if you keep the honest
feeling or opinion to your self. I hope you guys, my lovely readers (if you
even existed), have a great Christmas gathering with your family ;) !